So, today as I was packing my children into our vehicle a friend asked why are they still rear facing? I responded with my typical response...I am an advocate of extended rear facing. My husband was skeptical and actually told me I was crazy when I first popped the idea on him and after watching the videos and hearining my arguments he too, agrees, that erf is the way to go as far as car seat safety is concerned. Most people don't know what this is (actually my parenting soul sister Nikki got me hooked on making my parenting stances known). Well, here is the chance to hear me carry on about another one of my mommy beliefs. It is now recommended by the AAP (american association of pediatrics) now recommends that children...ALL children be rear facing until the minimum age of two. Why you ask? the law says my child has to be one year of age and 20 pounds and then I can face them forward. Well, yes...you CAN but why would you? This is a minimum requirement. Not a definite.
Take a second to think of these facts: 6 million car accidents a year in the US. Every 12 minutues someone involved in an automobile accident dies. 2,000 of those deaths are children. Almost makes you want to encase yourself in a bubble and never get into a car again.
So, those facts at hand it is important to stress that car seats save lives...no doubt and that safer car seat practices are needed. Now that the AAP has made their statement known we have to wait for the state to change the law and car seat manufacturers to change their requirements sticker. I am not one to butt my nose into other peoples parenting but these facts and videos changed my entire view on car seat safety.
A child, though they may have adequate muscle control do not have a bone structure that allows for whiplash type injuries. The bones that are protecting the delicate spinal cord are soft, pliable and do not have the ossification that adult bones do because of this during a whiplash type injury a spinal stretching of 2 inches can occur. The spinal cord can only withstand 1/4 inch of stretching before snapping occurs. That is a difference of 1 3/4 inch. This type of injury is called "internal decapitation", the name alone is enough to scare the hell out of you. What is literally happening is a childs spinal cords is snapping from the intensity of an impact though the bone structure is remaining in tact. There have been a number of crash tests performed that have shown RF (rear facing) crash test dummies undergo significantly less impact than there FF (forward facing) counterparts. The car seat acts as a cradle during impact causing a child and car seat to move as one unit rather than a forward facing child who's head is thrown forward during impact. This can truly be the difference between a life or death injury for a young child.
This video demonstrates what happens to a young child during a forward facing impact
This video demonstrates a rear facing child during impact.
The difference in body distortion, whiplash type injury and overall impact are noticeable.
There are arguments that claim that children in RF car seats are more likely to suffer broken legs during an accident if their feet touch the seat in front of them. This may be true. However, broken legs can be fixed. Broken necks cannot.
Your child may be going crazy to face forward and see the world. To be "big" like their older siblings and face forward but I am urging all parents to keep their children rear face to the minimum age of two. I have two very tall 18 month old boys who legs touched the seat in front of them months ago but they aren't going forward facing yet or anytime in the near future.
So, my word has been said...I have spread my word of knowledge and I am done for the day.
Sunday, May 23, 2010
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Oh how I love my parenting soul sister :)
ReplyDeleteWhen I first started reading I thought; Man this is something Nikki would say. & then read you mention her name. HAHA. Ok. Now onto my comment. I couldn't see the videos for some reason, but I want to. Csn you send them to me? If you need my email let me know. I told Nikki the same thing I'm telling you. I had no idea about this kind of stuff. I will admit that my son is a forward facing little boy. I thought that once you move out of the infant seat you have to have a forward facing carseat. & I thought that you were suppose to move the infant out of the seat as soon as they hit that weight on the sticker. When I heard Nikki saying that her daughter was still rear facing I though to myself, "Man M must not weigh a lot at all to still be in that infant seat." I had no idea an upright could face backwards. So after spending 100$ on a new carseat that only faces frontwards I was upset. I want to know all the websites you both do your research on. So could you tell me? I told Nikki that when I read the immunization blog she posted. I have no idea where to even begin looking. But what I do know is I won't make the same mistake twice, & this little one is getting EVERYTHING researched. & the same for my son from now on. Thank you Tamara. & you too Nikki; sorry this is such a rant. I tend to do that. LOL.
ReplyDeleteHope: Lots of mama's think the same way you did. That's why it's so important to educate about these things...so more mama's know, and can make a more informed choice. When I had C and S I knew NOTHING about this either. In fact, C was in a booster seat at 3 years old! I thought since she was 3 and 30lbs (that was the law at the time) that I HAD to move her. I wish I would have known better then, but i'm so thankful we were never in an accident, and that now I've had the ability to educate myself. Just google "Extended Rear Facing" and i'm sure you will find a plethora of informaton. You can also type the same phrase into Youtube.com and see the video's we've posted.
ReplyDeleteAs for the immunization thing...I can send you the info I have, as i'm sure Tamara can too, but you HAVE to look at it with an open mind. And make sure A is willing to have an open mind as well, because everyone will shove into our head that you HAVE to do this, or you HAVE to do that or you're setting your kid up or some grave future full of illnesses and diseases etc...and then you can make the decision that YOU feel is best.
Sorry for hijacking your comments Tamara...lol.
Nikki: LOL. I feel as if I'm now using Tamara's blog as a chat. But I'm sure she doesn't mind. I will keep an open mind about EVERYTHING! I really do want to know about these immunizations & if I think I should do it, then hell I will. & if not then all I have to do is explain to Aaron what I found & if I overload him with facts about this kind of stuff, he'll tell me to do what I think is best because he doesn't quite understand it all. LOL. When I told him about all of this information on the carseats he looked at me & said, why don't I just give you my card & you can take Tamara & Nikki with oyu to get a carseat. I don't care what it looks like that much anyways. HAHAHA. I just hate feeling like the uneducated one. I want Aaron & I to make the decisions for our child; not every other doctor out there. I'm a mom; & I honestly think that I can make my own decisions regarding my kids. I have an emotional connection to them unlike these doctors. & Mommy knows best anyways riiiiggghhhhhttt? :) & thanks for the help ladies.
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